The cyber bullying definition from the Cyberbullying Research Center website states that it is “willful and
repeated harm inflicted through the use of computers, cell phones, and other
electronic devices.” We are living in the social media age
and cyber bullying is rampant. It is all over any platform you decide to look
at, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Tik Tok and Snapchat. Cyber bullying does not
discriminate age, race, gender, social status, etc. People are always hiding
behind their screens typing things to friends or strangers they would never
have the courage to say in person. What stands out to me the most is that
kindness and common decency has been forgotten and replaced with narrow-minded
opinions and snap judgments of other people’s lives. Then it begs to ask, is
this the future we want for our children? They are growing up witnessing this hurtful
behavior, this cyber bullying.
As a school, we are tasked with the
job of teaching Digital Citizenship and Anti-Cyber bullying. Howard Gardner, a
professor at Harvard University developed a unit called “Digital Life”
that covers five ethical issues to assist in teaching digital citizenship. The five
issues are as follows, Identity, Privacy, Ownership/Authorship, Trustworthiness
and Participation in the community. These free online resources seemed like a
great starting point for elementary teachers and librarians to delve into the importance
of Digital Citizenship. School Counselors are usually very involved in the
topic of cyber bullying and teach lessons at the school where I work. It would
be wise if the librarian teamed up with them to reinforce and dive deeper into
the cyber bullying issues that face young students today. Allowing students time
and space to understand the ethical issues and their digital footprint is
extremely important considering employers interview your Facebook page before
even meeting you in today’s world. In addition, predators are grooming children
and taking advantage of their naivety online. So, I think it is important as
well to teach children at a fairly young age how protect themselves online.
The “Digital Citizenship Project”
founded in 2011 by a High School in Illinois pairs high school students with
middle school students as mentors to explain the importance of digital
citizenship. I absolutely love this idea. We have a leadership class at our
local high school that has put on book drives and come in our elementary school
as “Reading Buddies.” At my school, we could start in third grade pairing this
group of high school students to help walk through scenarios and discuss topics
surrounding cyber bullying. This way, students are learning from older students,
not only teachers, and both are reaping the benefits.
It is also imperative to have
parents involved in this process as well. A study published by the Journal of
Education and Training Studies surveyed parents in response to cyber bullying and
they tended to
“favor punishment-oriented solutions.” Most of the teachers, students and administrators
surveyed felt that more education and awareness was the key to correcting cyber bullying. I feel very strongly that adults also need cyber bullying
training and must be involved in hard discussions about their own representation
online especially with all the divisiveness that is happening in our country
currently. After the high school students work with the elementary students. We
could have the younger students train their parents on Digital Citizenship and cyber bullying
in an evening program event. The librarian could also line up some professionals
to discuss internet safety in their homes and the new ever-changing trending
lingo or apps.
As
educators and librarians, we have to arm our students with the knowledge of
being a good digital citizen. Everywhere they look there are examples of cyber bullying,
even by the president of our country. It is my hope that we can do right by
them so that they do better than we have with empathy and kindness towards
others while using electronic devices.The hurt and pain cyber bullying can cause is devastating to children. We must do better.
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| Here is a resources for the Effects of Cyberbullying. |

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